Designer Leslie May loves to entertain, and her personal touches and vintage tableware can create the ultimate thoughtful affair for family and friends. For our Great Gatherings issue, May put together two intimate tablescapes perfect for the holidays, or just a cozy winter get-together.

Here are a few of her tried-and-true ways to make your gatherings personal and memorable.


THE HEIRLOOM FACTOR: If you have vintage or heirloom tableware, share it with your guests. Not only is it a beautiful addition to the table, but you can tell the story of it as well.


ENCOURAGE CONVERSATION: “I love to encourage conversation from across the table, so I make sure my centerpieces are low,” says May. Multiple low centerpieces along the table ensure each guest has something pretty in front of them.


COZY & BRIGHT: Invite the right amount of people so everyone can fit snugly around your table. Light a fire if you have a hearth, inviting guests in from the cold, and put on some low background music to create ambiance.


COCKTAIL HOUR: Try to determine what your guests like to drink ahead of time, so you can be sure you have it on hand for special cocktails or favorite beverages.


PLAY TO YOUR STRENGTHS: “I really love to plan menus and cook, so that’s where I spend my energy,” admits May. “But if you love arranging flowers, order in and create some masterpieces to be admired throughout the house.”